~ What I Seek ~

Qualities i seek in a man...

  • Prince Charming with a flogger...

  • An exceptional man who is my match in most ways and superior in others.

  • 45-65 years of age

  • intelligent, confident, capable, financially secure, mature, not too bad to look at.

  • A man who understands that Male Dominance and female
    submission are nature's norm - not an alternative lifetsyle.

  • He should also be highly sexual with the ability
    to dominate my mind as well as my body.

  • A spontaneous, goal driven man.

  • A man who is not afraid to share deep, dark
    desires and fulfill fantasies.

  • A man that will take the time to listen and
    share ideas with understanding and respect.

  • He should also believe life is to short
    to be serious and intense all of the time.

  • He will adore my strong spirit,
    child like nature and love to laugh.




I am not interested in:


  • those who can't spell, write or carry on an intelligent conversation.

  • those who think D/s is about the kink rather than seeing the kink
    as an extension of Male power and dominance.

  • those who are here to obtain sex so bizarre that to
    procure it elsewhere would cost half a year's salary.

  • those who are so swayed by a woman's looks that
    they can't control her as needed.

  • those who let societal standards substitute original thought and analysis.

  • Those to whom I'm not attracted
    (completely subjective so...hey, why not send a photo?)